Geoff and Paul, my heart is with you at such a difficult time. I may not know the depth of your sorrow but I share a part of what you are feeling since your dad, my "Uncle Brian" was my godfather and I was always proud to say so, he comforted me as a baby, always thought of me through the years and made me laugh with his endless sense of humour but the greatest gift I received in having him in my life is the lesson he has left me with, to stay strong in the face of adversity and even when you learn that you are dying, keep laughing and enjoy life as long as you possibly can. Love, your cousin Shauna